Blues_saraceno

I have been in an affair for six months. I am a male, single, the lady i am in the affair with has been maried just over a year. I understand i made a mistake. She wants to keep the affair going but it has been very hard on me emotionally. I keep trying to stop it, but the affair starts again. I feel i am really ready to stop the affir because the pain is so strong. The problem is we just started to go to school and we are in the same class. i have no motivation for school, feeling very depressed, and considering quiting school so i can move on. can someone tell me if they think it is possible i can stop and get over this affair when we are in the same class. Feedback woulod be MUCH appreciated, i don't have anyone to talk to about this.

I was hoping some people could give me some insight in this. I am a 25 year old male having an affair with a 28 year old female. She is attractive and fun. I am not attractive or fun really but she thinks the world of me and wishes she could be with me. but she doesn't want to leave her husband cause she says she needs to be somewhere safe. when i tell how i feel she says i hurt her all the time with my words. Should I wait till she leaves someday or move on. I don't think i can even get a girlfriend. If this is all i can get should i keep it like this? This relationship gives me alot of anxiety and its hard to get out of. Some insight would be appretiated.