MelissaChica

Here's what I think.....I agree that in the end it's up to you...but you should tell her how you feel....if not you will always be wondering what if and you might grow to regret it...believe me I know....Tell her how you feel..if she leaves her bf because of it, then there isn't anything there for her anymore...don't be hurt if she waits a while ( if she breaks up with her bf ) though because it's understandable that she not want to jump into another relationship right away. Paige

Thanks so much Swingfox! Yeah it did take a lot of courage specially because I'm so shy lol but I know what you mean...you had more courage because you had sent her a letter during school....I don't think I'd ever have done that... because of the awkwardness as you said... Well for those of you who want an update....he didn't e-mail me back yet and it could be for any reason...the most obvious because he hardly checks his e-mail but the other one because he's really shy...this is a question to anyone who is shy or really shy guy or girl....if you got an e-mail like that would you reply? And how would it affect your decision if you liked her/him back?? Thanks Paige

Thanks Joe! Yeah I know that everything you said it true and it does make sense but it doesn't make it any easier to deal with.. But I guess it's true what they say..." If it was suppose to feel good they wouldn't call it a crush right?" Well I'll just have to wait and see if he does reply and if he doesn't I know I'll be crushed but at least I will have tried and I won't have any regrets...I won't be spending my life wondering what if...that is something that I hope all of you try to do....try to never have regrets and always try in cases like these because you never know Paige

Thanks so much Bobby I feel more at ease now and a little better I will try to do something to get my mind off of him but it's going to be hard....thanks again! Paige

Hi, Ok well here's the deal...my name is Paige ( i'm writing on my sister's account) and anyway here's the deal. I just graduated from high school this year ( grade 12) and this whole year I had this huge crush on this guy that goes to my school. I hadn't seen him before but because he was on my bus that year I saw him everyday,and he was also in a few of my classes. The thing is I was way to shy to ask him out or even really talk to him and so the whole year I just watched him from afar and everytime I would see him my heart would jump and I would feel butterflies in my stomach. I was constantly trying to sneak a glance at him. The thing is he's not really hot, the only thing I was attracted to was his eyes...the most amazing blue ever...but there's something else....there's just something about him..I'm not sure what but I feel so strongly about him. After graduation I was sooo mad and regretful that I had never told him or even gotten to know him better but by chance, by some weird conicidence I stumbled upon one of his friends who offered to hook us up. So last night I e-mailed him this sorta long letter telling him I had a crush on him and asking him to e-mail me back but only if he wanted to. Because he's really shy too and I didn't want him to feel obligated or just say yes cuz he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I can't explain this feeling its just soo strong as if it's meant to be...and I know its not infatuation because its hardly his physicality i'm attracted to but rather that something aobut him that I can't say what...anyway I have been a total wreck waiting for him to e-mail me back and so far he hasnt/ I'm afraid i might have come off too obssessive or that I might have scared him away. It can't help that I accidentally sent him 2 copies of the e-mail. I'm just worried that he'll be scared away and not e-mail me back...like I said I feel sooo strongly about this...about him and its obviously not love or infatuation..had anyone ever felt like this??? If sooo please e-mail me and share your experience...and if anyone guys specially could tell me how you would feel if you were in his position it'd be great. Thanks soo much . Luv Paige