InVisitor

I get so tired when people are in denial as to how important sex is in a relationship. You have told your husband that you are attracted to another man and he KNOWS how long you have gone without. What the hell is counseling going to do at this point. It's like drug addiction, he will not change until he has enough motivation to change. No one can do it for him. If he hasn't acted after your revelation, then he may never act. Why should you be miserable. I say that you done all you can with him.