joyfulgirl

Hi, You all asked what secret did I tell. I told my best friend that he and I had sex. When I told him that I told her about it, he got upset and felt like if I told her, I probably have told everyone. (which I didn't) The reason I confessed to him that I told her, was because I wanted to be honest, even though I should have told him this fact from he jump. The moment he had meant a lot to me. I wasn;t going to say anything to my best buddy, but I ended up telling her, because after he and I did it, he didn't call me a couple of days afterwards. I was feeling bad and I needed someone to talk to. Besides, I found out later that he dd the same thing, so what's the difference? Was I wrong? Please tell me your opinion, because i am so confused.

Good Afternoon, I really need your help and advice. I was seeing a guy at school for a few months, but we got into a very messy argument and ended our friendship. We see each other almost everyday and still don't say really much of anything to eachother. It been a few months and I don't know why he is holding such a grudge against me. The only thing I did was make the mistake of admitting that I said something I shouldn't have said to a buddy of mine about him and I. I honestly didn't think it was a big deal because it was me, too. It's really hard for me because I still want a friendship and now he treats me like we are strangers. Maybe things would be easier if we didn't see eachother in class, but I really don't think so. I tried and tried to be friendly, but he still acts real coldly towards me. He acts like I cheated on him or told his deepest darkest secret (which I didn't). I really want to talk to him about building a friendship, but I'm scared he will reject me once again. What should I do? Please help me.

A guy I go to school with and I were seeing eachother for couple of months, but it was nothing serious because he said he wanted nothing serious because of school, and plus I knew he wanted nothing serious because he put that on his online profile. I was cool with that, but I still had a a lot of feelings for him. Anyway, just as things started blossoming, we had a falling out, and we went our separate ways. He never officially broke up with me; he just stopped talking to me. It really hard to deal with because I see him in school everyday. However, he still has both of my screen names on his contact list and he has not blocked me, so i don't know his deal. Anyway three months later, I was going on link removed and i saw his profile on there and now it says that he is looking for something long term. For some reason, I feel hurt and insulted . I guess I wonder why all of sudden he want something serious after we went our separate ways. What made him change his mind? Why does he bother to keep both of my screen names on his list, if he has such a problem with me (he goes online all the time, so i would think that he would delete me or block me by now). I though I was over all this BS, but now i am back to feeling depressed. How should I feel?