a_lifters_life

(not divorced yet) but thinking that way for 2020...taken some preliminary steps We've been together on and off for 13 years... married almost 3, im so done with you. im sick of being 10th, 100th wheel in your life, when all I wanted was to have a happy, health marriage for our now 6 month old - who i love with my life personally, but you've sidelined me to the point of no return where I'm thought about always last in priority. For our marriage, and more recently for our son's sake you're too worried about your own agenda, and disjointed familial relationship. Unfortunately you've chosen that over having a long, loving life together especially for our son. At this point I've emotionally removed myself from our relationship and plan to take action in the new year . For both myself, and our son's sake I'd rather him grow up in a single parent household than a negative, and `broken` house that you keep trying to create by arguing with me in front of him. I will have no regrets in the new year doing this, so maybe you'll look back at realize just how much you gave up to put everyone before me at all costs despite me providing endless financial, and support throughout this recent pregnancy, and the past 13 years, but now you have a son and ill allow the courts to decide my GUARANTEED TIME with him, not you and your endless agenda and de-prioritization of me and my family over your family, extended family, and friends. you make me sick to my stomach. -lifter

I broke up with you for the better for us both. You helped me waste 4 years of my life on someone who couldn't even after 4 years learn how to treat me like the man she wanted to marry. You constantly put down every little fact about me and belittled everything about me. I will FOREVER not EVER let a women do this to me again. I remember our beginnings as young freshman in college where we spent our first days going to the gym together.... dates at that awesome italian place ... and strolls through town..... ...But... those days are forever gone. I still love you very much, but see in the long run its probably better we be friends down the line. I am in no state of mind right now to be friends as the 4 years together and nearly a week broken up still are ripping me a new one inside. I will love you forever; but I refuse to allow myself anymore hurt. I start working f/t in 2 days, so its best I try to get myself established.