major you said:
"Goal: The goal of this post primarily focuses on two things:
To maintain the dumpee’s self-respect and dignity
To avoid being pitied by the dumper"
While I didn't beg and plead for her to come back I did ask for a second chance several times. Also, I'm not sure if she pities me. She did say, "I'm so sorry and I knows it hurts." Both things I said to her when I broke up with her first.
But the thing that's confusing me is I never told her that I respect her decision and I never acted like I was ok with it. I wasn't out of control or acting crazy it was just obvious that being apart was not what I wanted.
We've been in NC for two weeks now. I guess it's too late to tell her I'm ok with her decision?
Or what? Please let me know. I don't want her thinking of me with pity or anything like that.
Please share any suggestions.
If you'd like to read my story it's here.
