replicator

Can someone tell me what the goal of no contact should be? Should it be to forget the person who dumped you, or make them miss you? I miss her, but NC will increase the chances she'll miss me and want me back, I think I can stick to NC. But I know if she calls me, my heart will jump and I will have to pick up, because I'll be hoping she'll be saying lets try again, and I don't want to miss that.