HeartBreKid

you guys are great ive read lot of this topic since i just got out of a fresh break-up ive made the mis-take of begging and pledding like an idiot lowering myself...i called her the day before today thats the last time i do that im going NC and i wanted to thank all of you guys for these post and taking the time to help others going throw this crap...i just think its sad a female would not think of what she is loseing by breaking up with a good man does she not think of "WHAT IF" thiers so many things guys do just to get in the pants of a women. they take advantage of emotions, situations, ect. women dont stop and think HEY LET ME TRY TO WORK IT OUT WITH HIM they drop you faster then a ton of bricks with weights on them (haha) anyways the point in trying to make they dont stop and think i could get REALLY hurt next time or even used or maybe abused ( phyiscally,mentally,sexually,finationally ect.) they dont see a goos thing if it hit them in the face and said here...... ive got to get my self-together progress in my life and forget that this happened for the sake of my own future.... the thing is she is baring my son at 6 months...me and her wanted to start a family but i fear she used me to get a child.. my question now is if she really wanted to start a family is she just toying with me because of the emotions of being pregant or maybe the fears of starting a family so young?(shes 19) or is it because ive been un-employed for about 4 months now she feels i wont be-able to help support her and the baby? this is way this is more hard more me then a normal break up cause i will be visiting and taking care of my son and in doing so ill be seeing her countless times and having my son living without a true family... now im asking what are the chances of being together for the baby? and if this might just me a deep emotional feeling for her and shes going through alot of stuff? no matter what its gonna tear me apart knowing i cant start a family and i have to see my son on occasions instead of being in his life 100%(rather both of us being thier as mother and father in a healthy home and such) i know i have alot of questions but heres 1 more... what should i do in this situation LC or NC? and what can i do to try and get her back( knowing the fact that you cant controll feelings or have a person to un-willingly love you or want to be with you... but i feel my situation MIGHT be different because she is pregnate but perhaps not) haha kinda funny i sighned up to tell you guys i liked your advise and all and i ended up telling you my problems haha well anyways i hope you guys could help me out... thank you!