i can tell you from experience... no.
i'm ashamed to admit this, but i've cheated on EVERY girl i've ever been with, including my ex-wife. i don't know exactly why i've done it, but i have.
a year and a half ago i met someone that fulfilled me COMPLETELY. i mean in every way possible. i never looked at a single girl in that year and a half with desire. i never thought about cheating. i was never tempted.
it had nothing to do with "keeping my commitment" or "trying hard to be a better person" or anything like that. it was 100% that i was getting everything i needed from this person and had NO reason to look elsewhere.
sure, i could still appreciate a sexy or beautiful woman, i could still see situations that could be "fun" sexually with other people, but that was never anything more than an acknowledgment. it was NEVER a consideration.
the ironic part... she broke up with me because she didn't trust me ;-)
she's the ONLY girl in the entire world that SHOULD'VE trusted me, yet she's the only girl that didn't trust me.
maybe it's karma for all the other girls i've cheated on ;-)
simple answer... no, not once a cheater always a cheater. i am living proof.
...josh
