Hello I have been going out with this girl i have had a crush on for a looong time. We broke up before and we got back together and now we've been going out for 2 and a half months and both of our friends are kind of hinting towards us that its about time that we make out. Im not sure when to make out or how to. everyone i ask always gives something different from: slipping them the tongue, just kissing, and "doing whats natural." I have no idea what is natural to do. Others say go with the flow and i dont know what that is either. If we are alone on a bench what should i do? Could you give me any advice? Shes shy but she really wants me to make out with her. What should my first move be and HOW DO I MAKE OUT!? Please, please help me. Thank you.