Yeah I wish I saw this earlier when me and my gf broke up about 2 months ago. I rang her every other day for 2 weeks sometimes even spoke to her about getting back together just to hear "I don't want to be in a relationship atm" it hurt more then anything. I have not spoken to her in 2 and a half weeks because I know it hurts like hell when you do talk to that significant other and nothing has changed.