My boyfriend and I have only been with each other for 1 year, but he just recently said he needed to have some space and move out so, I quote "I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, no matter what....". He claims that he wants to stay together, and feels the same way as he always has about me. I feel like he must not feel the same about me as I do about him. I think he is afraid of committment, and I don't want to be stuck in a relationship where he can't committ to the same level as I am. Make sense?
So, I told him if he feels this strongly about it, maybe we should breakup, so I can move on. He thinks this is a form of blackmail on my part....
It isn't, like I said I want to be with a man that commits on the same level I do. Otherwise, I'll find someone more suitable for me....
I know its a huge rejection when someone tells you this, but you have to decide if that is the kind of person you want to be with, if it is worth it to you.
