collegegal1

I would say it depends on the situation how the "boner" incident would make me feel. For example, if you have just ended a 2nd date with a young lady, you kiss, and you get a boner, you would probably not want her to know that...dont get me wrong its very natural but that could be interpreted (on her part) that you're overly sexual. If this young lady is your girlfriend (or something like it...haha) its a beautiful thing and i dont think it would bother her in the least.....it doesnt bother me in the least, i quite enjoy it.

please girls....dont amuse yourselves with these thoughts. i'm 19, so i'm not that much older than you. people tell you these things because they care--not to crush your heart. this man is at a very different place in life: can do what he wants, has his own money, and house. what can you add to him at this time?? my boyfriend is older than me but i'm in college and make my own money.....so right off top i add to his life by being financially stable and being able to connect with him intellectually. I really feel for you but please do not enter into that kind of relationship....there are so many times when i wished i had just listened. Absorb what we r saying to you. He could really get into trouble. Please girls, Please!!!! I cant stress to you how much I care!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!