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  1. Ok, here is the situation. There is this smart and very attractive girl with whom I have had the pleasure of a few classes. She knows who I am and I have spoken to her on a few occasions during class but never outside in the halls or anything. I have always wanted to do something with her outside of the scholastic environment. The thing is, I have been in two of her classes, (trig two semesters ago and she is in my current biology class) and she has never attempted to start a conversation with me, but then again she does seem pretty quiet. So my question is this, after being in her class for practically a year would it seem odd if I just up and asked her to a movie. I pretty much always assume the worst when it comes to something really important to me, so this is what I think will run though her mind if I ask her out, "Hmm, I was nice enough to respond to this guy when he just talked about trivial matters, but what makes him think I would go out with him? or Why did he wait so long, is it just some whim of his to go out with me?" Now I know this girl would never say anything like that because she is really nice, but if I am rejected I will analyze and analyze until I come to the conclusion that she absolutely hates me. I must do something because I sit right behind her and if don't casually ask her to lunch in the near future I foresee a day when she will start twirling her hair around her finger and I will just blurt out something like, "Oh you, who from so near yet so far away, completely conquer me!" (Which might make things a little weird Anyway, the basic problem again is: I think I have waited too long to express an interest in this girl. So ladies, if you were the girl of my narrative would it be odd if after a long period of only tiny bits of conversation I decided to ask you out?
  2. Hmmm. Don't know exactly how I ended up here, but I started reading some of the posts and found myself hooked. Maybe I can offer a bit of advice to Amaranth22 who wrote: "What I want to know is how to find my dream guy if I'm soo shy." Well, it depends, do you envision the guy of your dreams being similar to the guy you asked out in church. If this is the case then I am afraid you will have to change your entire personality, because this particular guy fits into what I like to call the 'jerk class'. You see, he can get women whenever he wants to, if he meets a girl that doesn't give off the vibe--I will do anything you want--he thinks to himself, "Why am I going to waste my time with this chick." On the other end of the spectrum you have the 'nice guy', actually the 'nice guy' is really in the middle, the true extreme opposite of the 'jerk class' is the 'shy, yet outspoken, nice guy'. This is the guy that will talk to you in a completely plutonic way yet harbor feelings he would never dare to expose unless he was absolutely sure you felt the same way; he will most likely have no idea that you are shy, he merely assume you aren't interested, but I digress So Amaranth22, my advice this: If being shy hasn't worked for 22 years I doubt it will suddenly come into fashion, just give it up and take some chances. Or disregard everything I have said because your post pretty much describes my life too But if you do take my advice and it actually works out be sure to post something so I can begin to practice what I preach.
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