Gemini32

If there's anything I have learned it's that if someone is going to cheat, they are going to cheat. It doesn't matter how pretty their girlfriend/wife is or how good the sex is. If someone has a lack of moral fiber, they will do whatever they please. You can't blame it on drinking too much, their friends or a certain circumstance. No one is perfect, but a decent person would not visit a brothel when they have a fiance and a child at home. This man should have enough respect for you to at least admit what he did and ask (make that beg) for your forgiveness. How would he feel if you went out and had a random indiscretion? Since it doesn't sound like he is even willing to do that, he is a coward. I don't think anyone, let alone the mother of his child deserves that treatment. So sorry you are going through this I'd like to see you move on and find someone worthy of your love.