Im on day 12 since my last email to my ex .. i wiped my computer of all the pictures of us (put on a disc) I may eventually email her a copy of the disk (maybe around our "anniversery" in july) .. it has us but also pix of her kids.family,dogs and friends .. I also deleted her as a myspace friend and deleted her from my phone .. she broke up Feb 23 I had nc for 6 weeks then met for tal;k then lc .. then confronted her by email about her new guy (an longtime friend she works with) and she confirmed it .. thats when I went total nc ..Im moving on and doing well good luck and thanks to all here .......zen