well i am 14 years old and my ex was 15 and we go to the same school and we dated for 11 months. we really loved eachother but i felt myself growing a apart from him...during a fight i told him that i love him alot more like a best friend than a boy friend, he broke up with me saying that he doesnt want to be in a relationship where my feelings for him are unstable...well for about amonth the only contact we had was the hi and smile when we see eachother in the hallway. but last week he asked me if i still liked him and i said no and i asked him and he said that he still loves me and i asked him why he asked me all of a sudden and he said that he didnt want to live his life with regrets and didnt want to think about that what if for the rest of his life. and i feel so bad because hes been nothing but good to me. he never prssured me for sex and after 11 months all we did was he fingered me with his hands in my pants and make out. hes always thought of me before him and always cared for me. the thing is though weve been talking like friends for the past few days but he just looks soo sad when we talk and hes getting really depressed and he tried to cover it up around other people but i know him better than that and he used to be the life of a party with his friends but now hes always quiet and hes always getting high and one of his friends ttold me that he told him once that he does it because it makes him forget about me and the break up while he is high.his same friend also told me that he thinks that a part of the reason i grew apart was because he never innitiated things liek sex and that stoppedus from getting clsoer but the only reason he didnt was because he knew i was uncomfortable with it. i feel so bad. do you think that if i gave our relationship another chance it would change?
