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Really, Don't screw the crew is right. If you would really listen to me you'll be so much better off, please, please, please believe me. I can't figure out a way to make you not do this. It really sucks.

Well, I know that she doesnt know who she wants. Shes told me sometimes i want to be with you and others with her. I am letting her do her own thing and figure it out but its hard. she still wants to be friends. I have no problem with that, but when we're together she is always so touchy feely it makes it super hard not to try to cross that friendship line. But then again i love it, like a dumb * * * i still hang around

I honestly just think she is young and doesn't know what to do. I didn't mention the 14 yr age difference did I? lol. I think she gets lost some times. I think that she has plans for her life and I wasn't supposed to be in them and now she is running because it's easier.

OK so when she says stuff to me like this, I'm just supposed to let it go and not fight for her? I KNOW SOME DAY WE’LL BE FRIENDS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE, BUT AT THIS TIME I SEE NO WAY. I AM TRULY SORRY, BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY I AM. AND IT WAS NEVER A QUESTION ABOUT MISSING YOU, BECAUSE I DO EVERY DAY. I MISS THE CONNECTION WE HAD, BECAUSE IT WAS UNDENIABLE. I MISS THE TIMES WE HAD, BECAUSE THEY WERE GREAT. I MISS THE INTIMACY BECAUSE IT WAS FUN. BUT I CAN NOT PLAY BOTH SIDES ANYMORE.

OK, Please listen to me.... I am telling you from experience here...I am the boss, that had the affair with a new hire. It started this summer and has been on and off, up and down, and mentally challenging. I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE FEELING. Don't do it...it's going to make your life hell and very hard at work. When things aren't going well it's very hard to work with this person, and in the end IS NOT WORTH IT. I'm still involved with my co-worker, who btw has a gf. The situation is not completely the same but close enough. DON'T POOP WHERE YOU EAT....lol

Ok, no - i'm not mad at her...just confused. We have an undeniable connection, something that is not there with her current gf and never will be. I know that she likes me. She's said to me she just doesn't know what to do..She says sometimes I want to be with you and others with her. Sometimes I feel that she thinks she owes her gf something or shes worried about what will happen if she leaves her. But we're really never going to know if she doesn't give it a chance, do you understand what i'm saying?

OK, let me know what you think here. I was involved in a long term relationship with a wonderful woman. I met a young, wild and hot girl who blew me away. We started hanging out and before you knew it we started hooking up. A month into it my girl found out and left, hers - well, she still hasn't figured it out. It's now 6 months into it and she now says that she can't do it anymore...that is, play both relationships and she states we just have to be "friends" now. How are you supposed to step backwards like this? She says one day she knows we can be friends the way I want it to be but it just can't happen now...what the F(*( is that!! I can't do it. I think she is just young and confused, but this time I think she's serious and it's killing me. I know she loves me but now all of a sudden she's "not in love with me", but she's not in love with her gf or she wouldn't have done this for 6 months - am I right here? Please tell me what you think!