thesoundbully39

and to add to growing list of issues.. we found out she's bulimic... i think she needs to get some serious psychological help. RC, sounds like you had quite a similar situation and all is true about what you said.

Thanks for the replies guys. I'm doing a lot better now. My parents tried to stick together and make it work.. but yesterday (about 3 weeks? later) she did it again. My dad is leaving her and they are working out a divorce.. It doesn't seem to bother me as much anymore, and I haven't talked to my mom yet since we found out that she didn't put a stop to it. My dad is moving to be with my sister and I guess I'll just make my way here on my own. It's going to be weird having my family in 3 separate states. If I go back to my hometown I know I will have to stay with friends, cause there's no way in hell I'm going to stay with my mom if she's with this other guy. I'd probably end up in jail. But anyways... thanks

So, I'm a college student and my parents came to visit me this weekend and everything was great. They went home Sunday afternoon after we ate lunch. Later Sunday evening, my dad called me and told me that he had just walked in on my mom having an affair. It shocked me, I'm 18 years old and would have never suspected it. I'm angry... I haven't talked to my mom yet. They're both a state away from me. I left a horrible message on the guy's cell phone, hung up, then just cried. At the same time as telling me about the affair, my dad also noted that my mom had been married to her high-school boyfriend before him. This was news to me. I feel like I can't trust her... I don't know how long it's been going on.. I don't know if or when I will be able to talk to her. And, it hurts that she hasn't made any attempt to talk to me. She has always been a completely loving mom. I love my dad to death, and I feel bad for him. My sister lives on the other side of the country and is really depressed. I talked to her just a little bit ago and my dad has packed his stuff and is moving down to live by her. I feel soo alone. I don't know what to do, who to talk to, I've talked to my friends but it doesn't really help that much. I don't have a girlfriend so I can't talk go that direction. I feel numb now... my eyes water up constantly and I can't stop thinking about my mom and how mad I am... but yet how much I need her... and how up this whole situation is. My sister finally stopped crying... I haven't talked to my dad yet today. My sister said they are planning a divorce. I'm completely behind my dad, he doesn't deserve this. But yet, I have always defended my mom. I feel so bad for him because he was making such an effort to be a good husband. When they were visiting me, he tried to hold her hand... and hug her. And she had to do this, and has been for awhile. They even just bought eachother new wedding rings. I need some advice... please help me I feel so alone