I would like some advice(s) from anyone who has had a similar experience.
Here it is:
My girlfriend and I have been together two years now but for practical work reasons we live 350 kms from eachother.
We are quite well matched and I love her a lot.
Recently she told me that an old friend of hers was coming from overseas to visit and that she would like to take him around for a week.
They went camping together.
I felt jealousy instantly when she announced this to me and told her straight away. She assured me that there she is not attracted to him what so ever and that he is just a good friend.
My personal experiences of similar situations lead me to think that the chances of sleeping in a small tent with an attractive woman of 31 (friend or stranger) who happens to be ovulating that week (!) leading to sex are pretty big.
I told her that and she replied that what is for me is not necessary for her.
Anyway, I decided to swallow my pride and not make a fuss about it.
Two weeks before the camping trip she started to call me on the phone rather quite often, telling how much she loves me. I felt very good about that but somehow felt that she was overdoing it. I mean she is never that openly affectionnate. She even sent me a card with very loving thoughts and instead of reassuring me It make me wonder.
Am I making it up to think that it's a trick to reassure me while she is having a wild week in secret?
Do the women who are reading this recognize a woman's special way to protect her own secret garden?
I know she likes to have a few secrets. I personnaly prefer the feeling of trust resulting from sharing secrets.
Has she decided to have one more fling before she commits to me?
I do not know how to handle this. I don't want to be the first one calling her and questionning her. I would love to trust her but find it REALLY hard!
Thank you all for answering, men and women and for your honesty
Now the camping trip is nearly over week this
