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I think you should just give her some time alone to figure things out;
but also let her know that you'll be there as a friend if she do
need your help in anything. But i don't think you should try to
count on anything more than friendship right now, because if she
couldn't find herself; any relationship that she chooses to be in
right now will not turn out right.
And just try to think positively even if it's hard to to, by remembering
the good things that have happened since you have met her. That
way you won't feel so depressed.
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what if the charm gets u into trouble? For example
you ended up making people think that you love them
when you don't?
i think i thought this charming guy loved me, when instead
he was just being i guess... charming.
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don't feel down. that happened to me too. One time this guy really
liked me for three years, and just when i was falling for him, he
gave up on me and had a girlfriend, and that was when i had fallen
hard for him too. I had class with him and his gf and now instead
of my name; he's calling her name. I was crushed.
After graduation, on X-mas , i ran to the both of them at the mall.
They're still together. But i told myself i'll find someone
someday.
Just cheer up and don't give up on love; i know that u'll find someone.
Not all of the great guys are taken. You just have to look carefully.
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the same thing that's happening to you is also happening to me or i should
say it have happened to me once, but is happening to me again.
the biggest lesson i've learned from the first experience is this. The guy
never did asked me out, even though it was obvious that he liked me.
And when i graduated to go to college, he never said anything either, even
when we were right next to each other. It made me ask and question
whether or not he ever did like me, and made me asked myself what if
i had asked him what would have happen then.
now the same thing is happening to me again in college, this guy
acts like he like me but he would never say anything. So, not to make
the same mistake again, i e-mailed and confessed to him that i like him,
and asked whether what i was seeing (that he liked me) was real.
So far he haven't replied to my e-mail yet, but even if i find out he
don't love me, at least i've found out something.
I wanted to know the truth and don't want to live my life wondering.
I suggest that you do the same.
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i've been in your shoes. I had a best friend and she and me always did
stuff together. We told each other about who we admired; and basically
we were both single and hadtime to spend with each other; but now she has a boyfriend and she don't have time to spend with me anymore. I don't
think what you're feeling can be called jealousy, but more like u feel
like ur losing a friend each time you see that your friends are about to
have a boyfriend.
My advice is to go out and make some more friends; and upgrade
your social life. It doesn't mean to throw away all of your old friendships
but maybe this will help you not to get uptight when you feel like
your losing ur friends. Go out clubbing, to a museum, or shopping.
Shoppin is not just for girls, guys do that too; well maybe they do so
to pick up girls. Hey that's right, maybe all you need is a girlfriend.
She'll take up ur time. And you and the friends in ur circle will live happily ever after. ;0)
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i don't know what problems you both are having right now, but
maybe if you both tell me what it is; i could give some advices
to help you out. Whatever it is, i hope that you both would try
to think what it would be like to be in the other person's shoes
before going out on each other; especially when you both love
each other.
You can be in love and love yourself too while spending time with
your family. Sounds impossible, but miracles do happen.
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hi,
I hope that i can cheer you up. I'm just a silly girl who's broken-hearted
too many times, and i wrote a letter to confess to this guy that i love
him yesterday, which makes me afraid to check my e-mail to see
his response. wellz... enough about me.
So i'm not quite sure about what's the problem with you and your ex.
You must still love her that's why you're still hurting over her. There's
a lot of girls out there. I know you probably heard that many times;
but you can't let yourself break down because of one girl. You should
try to start anew and pretend that you never knew her or that she's dead
in your life. Think about it this way, now you are back in the dating pool.
There's millions of people that you could get to know, and you don't
have to settle for the exotic girl either.
Good luck with love. And have a nice day.
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do i get paid to give the advices? I'm looking for a part-time job.
And i think that i am pretty good at giving advices.
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you did the absolute right thing, because it seems to me that he has
taken advantage of your friendship. If you haven't check his balance
you wouldn't have known that he's like that. That's pretty screwed up.
But i think you should confront him about it and tell him how you
feel. If he's being a jerk about it; just call it quits on this friendship.
However, if he apologizes and seems to know that what he did
was wrong, maybe you should forgive him once because you do
know him for years.
hope that helps
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My advice is that you should trust your girlfriend until you've seen
it with your two eyes that she have cheated on you; especially when
you know very well that she won't, but your past has made you
become untrustful of love.
You should keep in contact with your girlfriend of course, but try not
to make her feel like you don' t trust her; because if you do this
too often; i'm afraid that even true love can't save this relationship.
She will get tired of you're distrust in her; and probably would want
to break it off.
I know that this will be hard for you to do. But trust me to trust her.
It's good for the both of you.
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I think what you did is pretty much right, but i also think that
if you would ask her if there's anyway you could help take
some of the load off of her hands that would be better. She's
probably stressed out about a lot of things; so i think this is
the time that she would need your help and presense the
most to comfort her even if she thinks that she has no time
for you.
Hope that will help.
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Hi you're not the only one who's driving herself insane because of
love. I am too. I just wrote a letter to confess to this guy that i love
him through e-mail, but so far he haven't responded yet. I kind of
regretted sending that e-mail now; and now i'm so scared to check
my e-mail because i don't know what is going to be in his response letter.
Also what if he don't respond at all even though he've read my letter.
Ok... enough with my story...
I want to try to comfort you because you're in the same boat as i am.
The guy that i like he seems to like me, but at times i see him watching
other girls too. He's probably a player, but i want to hear what he've got
to say. If he turns out to be a player, no matter how strongly i feel for
him; i'll walk off and try to start my life anew and maybe hope to find
someone else for me. I know i will be crushed but at the same time
i'll try to be strong about it. I hope that you would do the same thing;
since he's not serious about you, there's a lot of other guys out there.
And i'm sure there's someone out there who is going to be serious about
you and give his all to you. Don't bring yourself down by settling for
something less like him. At the same time, he'll see your value, when
you are gone. People usually don't see what they have until it's gone.
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I think he's probably he's a little mentally disturbed. (I mean it
literally, because I'm taking Psychology right now and it seems
that he kind of fits in to one of the category.) He probably
loves you, but his sickness causes him to push you away. And
he is more comfortable when he's around people that don't
really matter that much like the new grl that he slept with. The
reason why he sleeps with her is because he is lonely from not
being around you, but his sickness makes it impossible to be
around you. thereforeeeeee, you're put into this situation.
I think you should give up on this guy; it's useless and it's going
to be hard to help him out and help this relationship out. Unless however
you really love him too much to pull out, you should really consider
leaving this to give yourself the opportunity to meet other people.
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I can be called a black sheep in love. Everytime I choose to be alone;
somebody instantly walks into my life and acts like they like me; and
then when i start to fall for them; they instantly change their mind on
me; and leave me feeling broken hearted.
After that it takes me months to get over being sad, and when i finally
get over it and decided to forget about love; someone comes into my
life and acts like they like me again; and i was hard to that person; showed
no emotion, but then finally i soften up and when i did, that person
changed his mind and decided that he was just sprung on me but he
realized he didn't really love me.
I guess that teaches me a lesson; which is never to love again. I guess
i'm one of the few who are better off alone. Love stinks!
The worst part of it all is that all of them liked me first.
I'm starting to think that these guys need to be taught a lesson, i need to
get even with them back. But how?? I don't want to be too evil, but
just to make them piss off will suit me just fine. Messing with my feelings
like that is just plain wrong. AAAAAAAHHHHHHHH! I am so frustrated.
How do i show her how much i love her?? (please read!!)
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i think all you need to do is tell her how you feel and how much you
love her. I think that's the most important part; and ask her if maybe
you two could get back together.
June 22, is your birthday. It's the same birthday as an old friend of mines,
and if it's 1983; it's exactly the same day.
Going out with his girl for two and a half years, also is the same.
And even the part about going to the same university as her holds true.
Is this Ken?