daisy duke

Dear Crusin, Yes i do think i will move on, i just dont like the part where there was some sort of sexual innuendo at the end with "were just friends, thats all we are, i just want to make sure you know that", is he kidding? And believe it or not, i did not want to hurt his feelings and say yeah "like i would be interested in a 60 year handicapped man" I just said crying i cant believe you told me all of that and just hung up. And i guess thats how are 15 year friendship will end, there is no turning back after that.

Dear Cruisin, Actually we never meet in person, we are in different states, i have called him about once a month for the last ten years, to check to see how he is feeling, etc, and also he was good for me to tell him about my problems, (which a person like that is hard to find) and he knew me so well. He is a very sickly man he has been in and out of the hospital for the last couple years. And he has always told me how much my phone calls have meant to him.

Dear Robo, I think what you are saying, really makes alot of sense, and all of you guys are great, thanks for the advice, i just feel God kind of gave me a mission to care about this man, when he does not have anybody, and its like, does God still want me to do this, or not. And where the heck did he come up with me stalking him, shoot i dont even live in the same state.

Usually those real smart people are quite moody and very quiet, it seems to me like she wants to be your friend, maybe she has a complex out in public.

I have been friends with a disabled man for about 15 years, we talk to each other every month, we have like a father daughter relationship for he is about 20 years older then me. I kind of feel sorry for him but i really do care about him as well, and he has one of those voices you really like to hear when you are feeling down. We have never spoken a inappropriate word to each in other in fifteen years, not a hint of it. Well heres the problem that has me crying, he went away to Europe for three months, he lives in a different state then me. When he came back i tried to contact him and he changed his number, can you believe it, i tried to reach by letter no response i called around to see if i could track him down, nothing, when i finally got his phone number he was upset and told me to quit stalking him with all the phone calls, and that we are just friends and thats all we are. I could not believe it, i mean i just cant believe it. PLEASE HELP