subramk

for the past 3 weeks or so, she has not picked up my phone, i only call her maybe once in three days or so, if anything, but after i call, she called me back only one time, and we talked and such, then we used to always go out on wednesdays ( and she told me she always had a great time ) and suddently there is a yoga class, so no more wednesdays, she called me, and i was mad so i didnt pick up, so she kept on calling till i picked up that night, ( 3 minutes ) of me hanging up and her calling back till i picked up and said hello, she said she had a dream about me where we sleep together, and then right after that, almost no contact with me for 2 days, she said last monday that her car was getting fixed so she wouldnt be able to do anything this week, so i threw a party for work people, and invited her best friend ( who i am good friends with ), and i never mentioned to her , she messages me on friday right before i leave for work, and she says , "hey i heard about the party to nite, hopefully i will see u there, " " my car is still broken, but i called and the guy said it might be ready in an hour or so" ==== then she actually comes to the party, and doesnt really say hi or anything, but i walk up say hi, give her a hug, and showed her where her friends were, then went back to my thing, then later that night, im waiting to go upstairs to dance, and she finds me and get in front of me and walks up, without even asking me to come up with her, i finally get up, and she is waiting around, alone so i approach her, and some guy comes up, and she ignores me, so that was my 3 time rule, so i went back downstairs and was with everyone else, and i see the girls leaving, and nothing, i didnt even get a good bye or anything, and since that friday night, no phone call, no IM, no text, nothing,

i dont know when to do it, should i do it over the phone, e-mail, or chatting online, because it seems like thats the only contact we seems to have lately, i agree with being straightforward, and my thinking that i do it at the end of the night, is childish, but any suggestions as to how/when/where i do it?

so I am certain that this girl I have been seeing is toying with me, and I have had enough, I think she still likes me, but is just having fun, I know she is the youngest of three sisters and is used to getting her way all the time and I think that no one has ever told her off, so my plan is just see her one more time and at the end of the night, let it out and say everything, and then just walk away, cuz i have had enough ladies if you were a tease and no guy ever stood up to you before, what would you do if someone did?

So this is the situation in a nut shell. We have been on about 8 dates, and always just us for the first 2-3 hours , smoke hookah, go to dinner and so forth, and sometimes we meet with other people and friends later on, we kissed in the beginning, and then there was this period where she didnt know what she wanted, and said she wanted to get to know me better, so i obliged, and was just a friend, and then we had 1 really good date, and it seems like things changed completely, we talk all the time, and she mentioned she wanted me to meet her sister, and all of her friends like me so far, so here is the question, how do i know that we are "dating"" or " how do i know if it something more than dating and maybe on the path of a relationship,? ladies, what signs do u give to let it be known what the "status" is ?

ladies, whats the best way to find out if she is just saying there is potential for a relationship to be nice or wheter she really means it?

So i met this girl about 3-4 weeks ago , and we hit it off right away I was really interested in her, and i knew she was interested in me cuz her friend texted me saying she was. We had out first date the next week and spent an entire day together when it was only a meeting for lunch. We had 2 more good dates after that, and then some drama happened, with one of my friend wanting to drive home drunk, and i tried to stop it, and then she said, " ill just take a cab home" all while i was taking care of the other situation. well, the next week we didnt see each other at all cuz i was in vacation, and well as her, and we both get back and i just feel the communication line has been diferent, we talked and she said, that she is interested in relationship, and she finds me very attractive, and we have a ton in common, but she said she was kinda scared of the other night, and that we were moving too fast 1 date = no phhysical contact ( a hug and thats it ) 2 date = 1 kiss at the end of the night 3 date = make out and holding at a club 4 date = the talk, and no contact not even a hug, just conversation 4 date = we will find out and after the talk, i did something i thought i was never going to do, i called her on my way home, and i told her, that i want to be the guy for her, and if it takes being friends for a long time first, than be it, she didnt seem sacred or taken back about that at all, which i think was a good sign, and we still talked a lot during the day, while at work and while she was at work, but almost no phone calls, ill call her, and its a 50/50 chance that she will pick up, and lately it seems as though i can text her, and we will talk about it later on the phone call but no textt back, but then she will text me other things about meeting up and such, and i feel as though " she just isnt into me anymore" this girl btw is absolutely everything i was looking for, except she is 1 year older to me, but when she asked me, and i told her, she didnt believe me at first that i was only 21, she though i was 24-25 , so i guess i want to know peoples opinion on whether i should stop beating myself up over her, and whether she is into me or not, or just say Screw it, next in line, ? ladies -> quick opinion, so you have read all of this, and i am up to a point where i am going to tell her, that i just want to be friends, ant that i dont know if any thing more would work out, what would you say to a guy that you are somewhat interested in, and he says that to you ? because you havnt made a move and dont know what you want ? i appreciate everyones opinion on this matter as a girl has never had me thinking so much about her, and i have dated and had relationships with a good bunch before, but this one is different