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I'm sure she really does want me she just doesnt express it the way I do. I'm kind of a romantic guy and I do sweet little things for her like I wrote her a song on and sang it to her on my ukulele, wrote her 101 reasons why I love her, I surprised her at her house in early morning so we could go to the beach and watch the sunrise, you know I do these things just because I'm that kind of guy. She kind of expressed herself and made it clear shes not really that romantic kind of type or anything, but sometimes I just wish I would get shown a little more loving..Constantly reminding myself that she loves me helps, but you know it doesnt hurt for her to tell me and do things for me =[ I'm a very sensitive guy btw..

So its my first real serious relationship. My girlfriend basically has another half, because she lives with her friend and is around her 24/7. Sometimes it bugs me because I want it to be just me and her. I'm the one that feels like the outsider, when we are on the phone, she constantly talks to her friend and it seems I am kind of being ignored. I always get jealous that she does sweet little things for her friend (her friend is bisexual btw) and never for me. I brought it up how I want attention and she just says you know I love you and says shes not very good at doing these sweet little things for me and stuff. Sometimes I just get so frustrated because I want her for me... :sad:

Man those are some nice words to hear, thanks I appreciate it. I just hope I don't screw anything up between us, because how would she react to me saying this, it will make me feel bettter to get it off my chest, but the things are still going to be happening, so yeah, I'm one confused guy.

I just dont know how to tell her though, or what to tell her...should I just read what I wrote on here? ha ha...

Its cool, thanks for helping me man.

Im frustrated that I'm not getting attention =/ I know its such a bad feeling to have and believe me I do try to ignore it but its hard, considering she is my first real girlfriend and my first love. Yes I am into her like no other, I always imagined what kinds of things I would to for my future girlfriends and I always do little sweet things because thats the kind of guy I am. I wish those things were reciprocated you know? I dont know if I should confront her about it or continue to ignore it. And yes I do trust her a lot, I know she loves me and trust pretty much isnt an issue, we tell each other everything.. I guess that her friend is Bi kinda weirds me out.

Alright so im new here, I just need to talk and get some advice about this kinda problem I am having. So im 18 years old and have been with my girlfriend for a few months now I know its such a short time, but my past has been difficult with girls...Right now its weird to deal with these feelings I have, like I would do anything for her, and I want to be with her 24/7. The problem is I get kind of irritated sometimes because she lives with her friend, and her friend is bisexual. I'm hoping she isn't corrupting my girlfriend, and I just dont know why I think of my girlfriend 24/7. I do other things to keep her off my mind, but I keep thinking about how my girlfriend is having fun with her friend and i'm not. Sometimes on the phone it gets frustrating because I want to talk to her, but she always has something to say to her friend, I dont know if this is stupid to feel, but I just needed to get it out and see what you guys think.