hi everyone. im new to ena and i hope that you guys can help me out with a problem that has been eating away at me for some time now. first off, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, things were rocky at times but we always figured it out. now things are weird... he started talking to a woman and has fallen for her a bit. he told me that he loves me but he has some feelings for her as well. i found out about her because someone emailed me with the message "if you only knew what your boyfriend was doing" then a phone #. before calling it, i called him. i told him the number and he spilled the beans. he's assured me that he hasnt cheated, it was just a friendship, but he has feelings for her, and she has feelings for him. he doesnt want to end our relationship ship because he says he loves me, and only wants to be friends with her, nothing more. im assuming it was her who sent the email, but she denies it. my email was on a public profile on a site that she uses also, so i guess thats where she got my email from. he recently told me that she gave him 400$ just like that. i dont think friends just give each other money like that... im confused. it hurts me so much that he wont stop talking to her. what should i do?
