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  1. im sure shes talking about me. that other thing was just a rebound for like a week
  2. ok well i went on myspace and i saw this bullentin Dec 22, 2006 9:15 PM Subject I gotta get over him! Body: Damn there is this kid that i NEED to get over otherwise i will drive myself crazy!! But i just cant stop thinking about himm....ahhhh that was yesterday which would have been one year and two months. thats how she felt after 2 days of NC what do you think??????
  3. she broke up with me because i was really jealous, i said some hurtful things, and that she thought she couldnt be herself around me anymore.
  4. im 19, shes 18. it would have been a year and 2 months yesterday
  5. i had done nc for 2 days....before i started nc the last time i had to talked to her was when she texted me at 10:30 saying "hey, i just wanted to say good night" then she called me 3 minutes after that text cause i didnt respond. i talked to her for about 5 minutes and then she sent me a text 10 minutes later that said "whats wrong with you?" that was 2 days ago, and now i broke nc to call her at 3 am. i dont know what to think about the whole "you're just playing hard to get" i cant figure out why she would think that.
  6. im so confused, i dont know why she thinks i was playing hard to get when she was the one who doesnt want to be with me. and yes i do want to get back with her, but i wouldnt jump into it right away, i would talk about what went wrong and get to the root of why we broke up so we could change. but now that she thinks that my nc is "playing hard to get" i dont know if shes even gonna miss me.
  7. the guy she had moved....she said shes not looking for anyone else i just dont know why she would say i was playing hard to get. and now that she thinks that is nc gonna make her wake up?
  8. i told that to her when i called her. when i was explaining the whole nc thing. i said i wasnt playin hard to get. i was just trying to give her space. she said there isnt anything to talk about cause we'll never be a couple again.
  9. she broke up with me 2 weeks ago and she found a rebound guy but he moved to arizona on sunday. she says that we'll never be a couple.
  10. but i dont thiknk the nc is going to make her miss me or realise what shes missing. she thinks im just playing hard to get. she hung up on me, should i text her and tell her that im not playing hard to get but that its just to hard to be friends when i still have feelings for her? i told her that i wanted to give her some space and then we would just talk about what went wrong and how to fix it. i told her that i just didnt want to jump back into a relationship, i wanted to take things really really slow. she said theres nothing to talk about. should i just give up all hope?
  11. alright i know i just made a big mistake i was looking at my exes myspace and i found some things that hurt a lot. i couldnt help but call. we got in an argument over all the stuff shes still convinced she doesnt want to be with me blah blah blah....i told her it was hell not to call her the last couple days. she said i was just playing hard to get!!!!! can NC really help this???????
  12. yea see theres one thing that just hit me. ive done nc before, when i went to basic i only got to call her like once every two or three weeks. so we didnt talk to eachother at all. and the times i did get to use the phone she was working were she didnt get reception on her phone. i sent her a lot of letters though. i wrote everyday for 14 weeks. so i dont know if nc is going to work
  13. well its now day 2 of NC...i'm still thinking about her. today would have been 1 year and 2 months.... ive been having my ups and downs. but i know i have to stay strong.
  14. man. i thought i was doing good with this whole nc thing. but now that she hasnt tried to call me or text me, im just thinking about her more and more. wondering why she hasnt called. i want to tell her that i dont want to be just friends and that to leave me alone for a while if she wont talk to me about a relationship. i just dont know if i should wait till she tries to contact me or just tell her sometime tomorrow. i want to tell her something like this "i'm sorry paige, i know you said you wanted to be friends still. but getting over you is just too hard when we're friends. if you decide you want to talk about giving it another go, you can call or text. but since you said we will never be a couple again i'm not expecting anything. just know that the window isnt always gonna be open. so if you dont want to atleast talk about being a couple, i would appreciate it if you left me alone for a while."
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