justafriend2
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oh and she doesnt know what shes gonna do about this situation still
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she was drunk cause she was hanging out with her friends and they were having fun. its not unusual for a 17 to get drunk
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and just so you know she was drunk when saying all of this so i have to wait till shes sober to see how she is. sucks
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this is great cause today, on thanksgiving, his ex-wife calls her and tells her that she ruined their 4 year old and 2 year olds thanksgiving. and my friend is out of that whole deal, i told her to just step away cause honestly, thats just a stupid situation to get in to begin with. i knew this guy was lying about stuff. i knew there was more to him. she found out that he always dates younger girls and that hes an alcoholic. funny cause she told me at the beginning of their date he asked if she wanted a drink (alcoholic) and she was just messing around saying "well what do you got?" and she didnt have any but he drank some and i was just like, "geeze, first date, first thing asked 'do you want a drink?' sounds like an alchy to me". im always right about her situations its not even funny. everything i predict after she tells me the situation im always right on the money. its crazy. but i know even after this situation shes still not gonna listen to me. i am always right and it sucks sometimes but oh well, someone has to be right sometimes....most times...all the time.
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she even questioned him about it before they even went out cause she had her suspicions. and he said no. he said that he didnt tell her about them cause he knew that she wouldnt give him the time of day. well DUH! he put her in an unfair position, he shouldnt have done that to her cause now she feels like shes butting into his and his kids lives. and not only that, she suspects that he hasnt even told his ex-wife about my friend!
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man, i knew i was right about something about this guy. ok so she called me when she got home from their date. she told me about it, she said it was fun, they made out (of course i mean, who WATCHES a movie when on a date?). and she was messing with his phone and she saw his wallpaper on it. guess what it was of? HIS 2 KIDS! he said that hes never been married/divorced/or has kids. he told her he didnt want to tell her about them until she really got to know him. now she doesnt know what to do.
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its funny, shes actually on a "date" with him right now and shes having me call every so often to check up on her. theyre watching a movie, and it happens to be a scary one and he knows that she gets scared * * * *less...like he didnt know what he was doing
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i dont think hes being so honest with her about an ex (or so he says she is). she kinda investigated that but he talked his way out of that whole thing. but me being a friend wants to make sure theres complete honesty, but i dont think thats happeneing.
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shes really hesitant to have deeper feelings other than "i like him". she was crying on the phone talking to me telling me that shes scared to have any deeper feelings towards him.
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how can i do that the right way?
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he is being real manipulative though to make her think theyre on the same level. cause she's told him one time when he said he was falling in love with her, she said "then why do i feel like its fake" and he said "maybe cause you dont know what its like" (i think i stated that part of a conversation before) and shes told him "im afraid to feel anything like that towards you" and he said "you wanna know something? im afraid too". and it just hit me, if he's so afraid why did he already say that he's falling for her the second day. he does that a lot, she'll say something and say "you wanna know something?...blah blah blah"
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yeah i really dont know how he cant find someone around his own age
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i just want to know what it is about this guy that makes me so uneasy about him. its not the age thing so much. and when i get feelings like this im always right and it sucks, cause its always with the bad things. i really dont want to be right but this feeling is eating me away inside.
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i dont think age difference is horribly wrong. sometimes age difference does catch up though. theres different levels of maturity going on in different parties. i love my friend to death but sometimes the choices she makes, are just...well we've all been 17 before. what would a 27 year old man want in a 17 year old girl? like a lot of people i talk to say "he's living a grown mans dream!" and in a way it is true. and the whole manipulating thing, i never really thought about that. and it seems like thats what hes doing too. cause its almost like he's pressuring her and she doesnt really know it. its understandable to be scared to fall in love. but shes scared to fall in love with him cause she knows in her head that she'll end up hurt or hurting him badly. she told me herself. when you fall in love with someone you shouldnt feel scared, you just fall knowing that you feel safe that someone will catch you.
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like for their "first date" if it happens, first she told me that they were just gonna go out to get some coffee and play some chess and checkers. but then the next day she tells me that hes gonna cook for her and take her to the beach as the sunsets. does that not sound like seduction in a bag?
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i have a friend who is 17 years old, shes been talking to a few guys but none of which have been good to her or close to good enough for her. she feels as if she needs someone to be there for her. and recently a friend of hers had her talk to a guy friend from school. hes 26 going on 27. a 10 year difference as you can see. this guy already has his life planned out, he's set. he has his own little mortgage company, hes loaded with money...basically set for life. my friend is only 17 still a senior in high school and doesnt know what exactly she wants to do with her life. they havent even met in person yet. theyve talked on the phone and online. he already told her that hes falling in love with her. he said that the second day they talked and theyve been talking for about a week. hes everything that she could want in a guy she says but she said theres something about this whole thing that makes her not want to be with him. i talked to her today and she said that she's scared to fall in love. shes scared to be hurt. i honestly think this is an inevitable heartbreak. shes scared cause she already knows she'll get hurt. this man has experienced everything and shes not gonna be happy. she still needs to experience life and live. i just dont know what to tell her. looks like im asking advice on how to give advice lol. but i just dont want her to end up so heartbroken. any thought or advice on this situation is very well appreciated.