I did file charges, but the state's attorney is not prosecuting them because she claims it sounds like a "cat fight" and nothing would come of it in court. Basically, she came to our house flipping out at him, screamed at him outside, i heard her tell him she had been banging on the door for half an hour before we answered it (we had been upstairs, did not hear anything). At that point he came inside, she started storming off to her car (she had their 5 year old in it, running and unnattended with the windows down while she did all of this). I told her to grow up, she stormed up to the door, we engaged in a verbal argument, she pushed the door in and punched me in the face, he got inbetween, took him about 5 minutes to get her out of the house, she kept fighting to get around him to hit me again. I called the police. I also applied for a peace order, the temporary one was approved (1 week), but the judge at my final hearing said it was a "mutual affray" or a "brawl" eventhough I never touched her, and denied it. In the future when she comes to our residence acting that way, he has agreed to call the police. They are currently in mediation, and they agreed in there that she is not to step on the property, part of "personal boundaries". To top it all off, after she found out I had pressed charges against her, she pressed charges against HIM for assault and false imprisonment, which is a total lie. Her statement in her charges and statement to the police officer (he went to her residence after he interviewed my boyfriend and i) are completely contradictory. When she talked to the police officer she admitted to hitting me, but said it was an accident, and made no mention of my boyfriend treating her badly at all, just stated that he "got in between us" but in her charges claims that he held her arms from behind her back and refused to let her leave. She is crazyyyy, and I am scared that this nonsense is never going to end. Even after the divorce is finalized. Custody is never final, and I know what this is all about ( because custody= money), I'm afraid she is just going to keep doing this kind of thing for the rest of our lives.