mishioo

I've been on the pill for about 7 months now, and since i've been on it my period comes at the exact same time on the exact same day. But just last month, my period came ONE DAY early - which is really unexpected. is it okay? is it normal?

thanks guys for all your input..it really makes sense! you guys are soooo helpful! i think that you guys are right in that we are different people. I feel the need to see him all the time, but he doesnt. And that hurts me. But i do know that he does have things to do. He says that i'm holding him back from doing things coz i dont let him live life. But i really only see him about 3 or 4 times a week? and he thinks that i'm pushing it. And i dont even see him for a whole day, maybe only a couple of hours or so. I think that because my life is totally different to his - i'm not very busy and i dont work. But he has longer uni hours, work and other commitments. I'm scared that if i let go of him anymore, he's going to forget about me. When we dont see each other, we always have like 1-10 minute conversations on the phone every couple of hours and at night we talk for at least half an hour before going to bed. I guess, i dont really have that much to complain about, but a lot of things that he does (even though it's not a big deal) makes me angry and i give him a lot of attitude. I dont even know why i get angry, but i just feel angry. I think that he wants this kind of relationship for the rest of our lives. What i mean by that, is not seeing me as much as i would like to see him. He wants to do OTHER things, have his "OWN" time. Am i being selfish? I am the kind of person that gets really annoyed when i don't get my way. Oh and he lives 20 minutes away and we don't do anything in common (ie. go to the same uni or hobbies). So it actually takes effort to see each other. Juliana - what do you mean the situation does? I dont understand...the situation can't change unless i change right? *lost*

I've been with my boyfriend for over one year. We both said we love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together. But the problem with that is we have so many arguments, its like its pointless to be together when we're never really happy. He says that i'm always getting angry about stupid things - i admit, i get angry when i dont get to see him for a couple of days, i feel like he just doesnt want to see me. He says he can see me once a week and he'll be happy with that. But i'm not that kind of person. That just hurts me. Why doesnt he want to see me that often? The bottom line is, he says i'm always complaining about things and i'm always getting angry unecessarily which is why we always get into arguments. He's a very sensitive guy and gets hurt easily which is why (i believe) our arguments always escalate into something really big when it doesnt need to. I feel like i'm the one always making the mistakes, i tell him that i'm going to change, but i always just get angry again and again. He's getting sick and tired of me telling him i'll change but i never do. In the moment I always believe i have a right to get angry, but after we argue, i'm always the one who has to apologise. Is it because its just the kind of person i am? or because i'm not willing to sacrifice change for him? He says he's sacrificed everything for me, but i'm never sacrficing or willing to make any for him. The situation is much more complex that this, but ultimately, i don't know how to remind myself that i need to change things for him. I dont want to make the same mistake again and lose him.