I don't really understand the reactions on my last post, maybe I didn't really explain myself well. I am not planning to call him anymore, because it will hurt him and myself. I think wanting contact now would be out of denial. I still love him and on one side I would still want him back, on the other I know that our relationship is not possible anymore. We were in a Long Distance Relationship and it was a lot of pain missing each other all the time.
During the relationship I always said that love is all that matters, now I dont know anymore. Maybe its not enough.
I am very scared though that I will lose him, since he lives in another country. That we would grow apart. I hope I can call him at a later time, when I understand and can live with the idea that it's over. I also hope that he would pick up the phone and talk to me. I understand that its also his right to not pick up.