confused_and_dazed
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so basicall trust him....not her...and let him spend sometime with his daughter....but then im going to be freaking out the whole night that he is at the hotel room with his ex....i know i wont be able to get any sleep...i dont want to loose him....but i dont want him to know that im so very scared of what is going to happen
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and yes he would be staying at the same hotel room as her
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they have been basically separated since me and him started going out because she came out about a year ago and then left again....and they agreed that they would still be together long distance though...and then me and him met and he wanted to be with me and not her so he phoned and broke up with her
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well....he also hasnt seen his daughter for almost a year....and then on top of that....he made a promise to her that at the end of every conversation they have together that he would tell her that he loves her....she is so crazy she is trying to get information about me and how i feel about him....trying to basically rattle my cage.....im at my wits end....i really dont know what to do...ive never met her she trys to get mad at me when she cant get ahold of him...and when i ask him why he still tells her that he loves her he says
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thats the thing like i asked him if he could take his daughter for the night and he said its cuz his ex thinks that he will run away with her...and take her away....he wants too so badly but he wont... like i dont understand why he would have to stay at the hotel with her....he said i didnt understand and that all he wanted to do was see his daughter...and that basically
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Ok...here is the thing....me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 6 months.....and his ex and him have a child together....and they are coming to visit....im exited on meeting his daughter....but his ex not that much....i dont even want to meet his ex....but the thing is he doesnt stay at his dads place...he usually stays with me at mine...so he has to pay for a hotel for her when she comes out....but he wants to stay the night at the hotel one of the nights....i trust my boyfriend i dont trust his ex and he has already admitted to me that she is going to try and get him back....he doesnt think that his ex will try and use his daughter to get him back but i think she will....and with him wanting to stay at the hotel for one of the nights she is out here....i dont want him to....what should i do? how should i deal with everything thats going on? what should i do about him wanting to stay at the hotel a night?