AdriSnow

Oh man. I have come to a conclusion I am obsessed with my ex. I havn' seen or spoke to him in almost two months yet his thoughts cloud my brain. I know I want to see him so badly. Should I just pop up at his door. Or call. I emailed him once. ahhhhh Oh man! I just made a song about him and am Uploading old pics of him on my phone. This is nuts!

Very true Hope, But He has seriously hurt me. And I feel If I don't make him leave my life. I believe just that much longer I will be living in pain.Right?

yea that sure is . Crazy. He was ashamed it seems. He did lie and it seems you are happy now he is gone. How long ago was that and... Have you met another person who makes you happy and you get along great with?

I dated this man for 7 months. He had be beliving he was in love with me: I had his house key and the entire nine yards. He started changing not wanting me to see him and always yeeling at me always kicking me out his house. We broke up after complications. He would tell me oh never will I have a relatiponship again. But he love me and wanted to marry m and I have his child. I would make love with me. NOw I find out he bad moths m saying I flaunt myself around him. I tight got a great body and am spanish. SHe is good in bed she always came on to me. This coming from a Man who would be so emontinal when he saw me clinging on me and promising to never leave me. He speaks about me like I'm a hooker, a * * * *. Another thing is. I am under age and now I'm revengefull. To bad for him RIght? Betrayal gone wrong in his case . Heck yea!

That is crazy he lied about being a drunk. Was leaving you for a period of time. WHat was he doing? Do you think he was cheating on you during that time or just trying to get some space. And That was very strong of you to realize he wasn't healthy for you!

Just a question have you felt betrayed or used by anyone?

I'm Trying to figure that one out myself

Thank you all for the consern. I can't wait to get over the entire situation and look back and laugh at how silly I was being. I wish it where today I'd be healed and everyone else.

if you keep saying love is only short term; girlfriends will never last. You will never get a chance to try and taste the gift God gave us. To be in love marry and have children. You will only be with yourself and hurt others who loved you.

Nonone will understand this poem unless they have been with you long enough to understand you, long enough to love you.

HEy He isn't Married. If he was it would be to me .. silly.. Now My mother wants be to see a therapist But, I have become a drifter between my moms my grandma's and my dads house. I have no home now I just go where ever. Sad... Thanks for the idea to call and ask him to coffee or somthing. thereforeeee we can get closure and understand where we are and or/ how to not see eachother. I am debating whether to call or write an email. I get real nervis and clumsy where I am near or try to call him so. From an Adult !! please Call ? or email?? Or just show up at his door and ask to speak with him? help

maybe he is depressed . It happeneds. Ask him I suppose . I would just try and get all the anwers your can from him to ease your own mind

he could miss you and be playing that hard male role. Or is trying to slowly lure your emotions back with him. I wonder have you hanged out with him or seen him or had anytime of sexual encounter?

dang dang darn pain..

I was like that to when I was a virgin. Now that I'm not it really isn't on my mind now

It funny . I can almost relate. I was inlove with a guy ( are situations are different) I still love this guy now I am seeing another guy just to keep my mind off of the main guy I love. Yea it's being used Yea you are being used prolly so she wont be so hurt over the other guy

Pretty much love is amazing and can be someone downfall

Hey I need some help with how I should approach my ex. To get an idea of our past we dated for 8 months or so. he was in his words "crazy about me". We broke up do to complications with the law.We kept haveing sex for the next 4 months. During this time he would still get mad if he saw me with other dudes but, demanded he didn't want a girlfriend . He told me he loved me and told my mom he wanted me to get pregnant so I could live with him and he could take care of me then would not speak to me for a week. i spoke about him with people that knew him they lied and told him I said things I didn't .So he stopped speaking to me, he cut me off because what they said. Next I called one of his jobs told them he smokes and he quit himself.

I don't know why I did that (I wish I didn't) because I love him .Now The first time in a month i seen him at the gym. This is what I need help with!. I went to the gym we saw eacother but, didn't speak. He kept going to which ever part of the gym I was in.(which was odd because I thought he hated me) I noticed I went on abs he did abs So on. then he started kicking the bag and While I was stretching. The next day someone from the gym called, who seen my ex and I. He said I noticed your friend was there and kept drifiting to whichever part of the gym you where in and.. He had his stuff to leave and turned around when he saw you and startded kicking the bag. With that said I have a strong urge to contact him with and apology and to tell him I still love him or somthing.!!!! Anyone know what to say to him or anything at all. I want to call him or email. Does anyone have words to maybe ease his pain or hatred toward me. Or to calm a man down. Thanks so much.

This has been bothering me thanks for your views.

I dated a man who was 27 and I was 16. One night he hit me and I called the police. He has gotten me drunk, high and taken advantage of me when I was not sober. Now tha night I called the police he had naked pictures of me ( when I was 13 years old) he showed them, to inciminate another person and in order to get out of trouble himself. thereforeeee, he is already on the police files. He is now threating me saying his friends are going to hurt me( they know where I live and what car I drive). My mother called the investigator we previously had. SHe told my mother the case would be thrown out of court because We dated. SO what is legal now? A grown man at 27 can seduce and abuse a 16 year old and will get out of any legall situation because He Dated her??. Please, anyone that might be able to help me out with this one or jsut some advice. It sounds corrupt to me? What Do I know I'm still only 17 and lack much experience.](*,) ](*,) ](*,) ](*,)

I think he was just trying to scare me.

I may have been slightly wrong for calling his job but, He has caused me serious emotial and physical damage. Keep in mind we did break up because I was forced to call the police and one of his episodes.

This one was labeled "My final words"

Don't even worry about the response. The person you

spoke to at my job recognized your voice, and they

know for a fact that it was you. My supervisor asked

me to either take a voluntary drug test, or take a

leave of absense from my job with the possibility of

termination because of your little stunt so I hope you

got what you wanted.

I also want to tell you that you've pissed a lot

of people off with that non-sense and I have a few

friends that I hope to God you don't run into at the

mall or while you're out on the town. They will

recognize your face, because I showed a few of them

your modeling pictures a while back and a some of them

have even seen you at LA. Fitness. I've told them that

it's not a big issue because what goes around comes

right back around and before it's all said and done,

someone will return your little favors right back to

you. I've also told them that if they put a hand on

you they may as well not speak to me anymore because

that's not the type of energy I want to put out in

this world, but they tend to see things a little

different than I do. All and all, I hope you enjoy

your life, I'm not mad at you, I just don't understand

how you could claim to love me and try to sabotage my

life at every given chance after all I've done for

you, that's what hurts the most.

Can an adult give me some advice?](*,)

I just want an opinion. I think about my ex all the time. It's really annoying. We broke up because I called the police on him for pushing. Then he found out I am year younger than he thought. He would still tell me he loved me and all. Then he started using me for his sexual pleasure. my mom got pissed called him and threatened if he does not stop doing that he will go to jail(as far as manipulateing me into bed). We all spoke after, he was cool he understood. The I didn't speak to him for a while. And when I don't see or speak to him I get really mad or really depressed. SO I got depressed this time.I went to a party and a bunch of people knew him told me some bad things about him. I got drunk and I guess I told some people my story. Next my so called friend came to him after he was already mad and told him I played him even while I was dating him. So to make things worst I don't hear from him for, now two weeks . He emails me my eye's brighten. He has a bad attitude. I cry

ALmost done =)

I bring hima gift for holloween. I hear him talking about some other chick. I cry and cry. Then I get mad. And called one of his jobs and told them he smokes weed(which he does). It's like when he is mean to me or keeps trying to get ride of me. I do stupid things out of pain. That end up hurting me worst because. I honestly want to be with him and love him. >>>>>. Any opinions Please.

Depending on the chick. You need to buy a book on how to give oral. This is a very inportant thing. IF a guy does not give me great amounts of please through head I will never sleep with him. And a guy will never stay my boyfriend if he can't or wont do it. ! oh and its nice to kiss on back and neck .. Must play with their hair. I know I enjoy that

My ex and I have gone through so much stuff. I love him with all my heart. We dated for 8 months. I called the cops on him they showed him My id and he found out I am seventeen. After that day 4 months ago. I see him once every week or so and he gets all cozy and we have sex because I cannot seem to resist him. then he gets an attitude and makes me leave normally . then I wont hear from him for a while. I have had previos issues frombeing raped at an early age.. I get very depressed and sucicial. ok. so things have been better with me and my ex. last night he let me come over and we spoke and had sex then kicked me out, but it was nicer. he tells me he truly loves me and all is getting better. When i came home last night I was happy because I just seen my ex. Now.......... I wake up and I see Mikes car. My stomach jumps and i run to the door. he asks about my mom. Tells me he loves me 3 times and leaves. I confused. I cal him and he tells me he wants me to stay away from him and get out of his life. He says my mom called and said she was trying to get him put in jail. And kept threatoing him now. he wants nothing to do with me. I keep wanting to dissappear. I just cut myself. {Mod Edit} is going on with my emotions. Im 17 and trying to figure out how I am going to try and kill myself. I just want all my pain to stop.

Thanks, it's so hard for me tho