My girlfriend cheated on me at the beginning of the summer. It was really tough for me to take since it was the first time I had ever been cheated on. We discussed it and I asked her if she had any real feelings for this guy. She told me that she didnt and that it meant absolutely nothing. I forgave her for it. I told her that I didnt want to hear anything more about him though because every time I thought about it, it just hurt too much. Things seemed to be going fine for a month or so after she cheated, but then she started distancing herself from me. Eventually we went on a break, and finally she broke up with me. She told me she broke up with me because I wasnt giving her enough space and that she wanted room. College started in the summer and we began to see eachother again and eventually we started dating. We have been going out for almost two months. However, this morning I was on her computer and came accross a message from the guy she cheated on me with. I know this wasnt right of me at all to do, but I checked her chat logs with him. In the chat that she had with him only a month ago (while we were dating) she was getting mad at him that he didnt want to get with her. She said that she broke up with me so that she could be with him. I also know that he visited her once at the beginning of the school year and that she still keeps in touch with him. I confronted her about the chats, and she blew up on me (which is understandable) and said that I broke our trust. I decided to give us space to think about things and in a few days we would talk again. In a way though, I feel like I was/am being used. Im at such a loss. Am I being used and what should I do?
