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it is really hard now to make close friends, usually as you grow older your circle of close friends becomes smaller and smaller due to ageand experience. For me personally I only have 2 close friends who know the most intiamte things in my life and I am happy and contend.. it is perfectly normal to have one close friend.. as a secret is shared between more than 2 won't become a secret any more.. so stick to your close pal and do not worry much.. when you are with a group of friends be yourself don't think much about how others think about you that is you do not talk much or you are not joining in.. be confident and do not pretend to be someone else.. if you wanna be closer to someone you have to gain the trust of that person.. and you have to be ina frequent with him/her.. ot in a clingy way of course.. good luck and enjoy your life.

Thank you renaissance for your understanding.. I still leave my options open that is if I find a suitable person (which are not many unfortunately). and I thank allgrand for her response whcih sounds sceptic but true and yes truth hurts and may be I am willing to go with the flow and get dumped later..then I will come to you crying. LOL

itsallgrand darling, your advice seems a bit harsh to me, he is not that rich honestly .. he is very generous (He is a Leo) and I will never take him for granted .. I have not told the whole story in details , I went dutch few times and he accepted reluctuntly.. yes he makes me feel like a princess (sometimes) .. I think he is putting this shield of coldness to hide a very vulnreable person, may be sensitive too.. I am trying to scratch this surface a bit by bit hoping one day I will be able to crack it .. I do not know how long it will take but I am completely head over heals .. i know it sounds crazy .. may be I am a dreamer but I have this feeling thatg I will succeed.

Being disresepectful, too controlling, stingy, emotionally/physically abusive, not confident, unfaithful.. there are many factors that make a woman fall out with a man.

Hi there.. I am so confused .. I met this guy at work and I am so attracted to him.. we went out together many time and after a month or so I told him that i am attracted to him and whether there is a chance between us.. his reply was more confusing.. he said that he had a relation ship 15 yrs ago and he did not get over it yet!!! and it won't be fair for me becuae he will compare me with his x-girlfriend.. (that was 15 yrs ago) .. and he siad that he will know right away when he finds true love and he won't look for it....the guy is workaholic and does not socialise much.. but i am still attracted to him.. we still go out together a lot (as friends).. I tried to make him open up a bit but he was adament that he does not need a friend to open up with and he is doing fine.. the confusing thing is that he give me all the wrong signals.. he promised me that we'll go togeth to france .. he even took me out shopping together taking my opinion for the furniture of his house.. he even let me chose new cloth for me.. he invited me many times and insists on paying.. he is a true gentleman.. i keep asking my self is he gay and he does not know? does he have a physical problem and is shy to talk about it? I am totally confused... I need an advice.. please