hi,
I need some advice as i dont want to involve family yet.Here's the story let me her what i should do??
Im married with kids my hubby has been moody for a while.Anyway he has an ex girlfriend they split up around 10 years ago they were not together long and he has a child.
His ex has always used this child as a weapon , left him for another man and wont let him see his child.I met him we have been together 9 years and have kids.
Anyway he has always said how he dislikes his ex etc .He pays money into her bank account every month £300 .I dont mind, he should pay for his child.However i planned a surprise party for him recently and had to get phone numbers of friends off his mobile in order to have everyone at the pub waiting etc.When i went through his phone as i didnt know how to work it there was a number with a strange neme text messages also incoming and out going calls.I know i shouldnt but i had a strange feeling so i have kept on checking his phone and its his EX! There are text message "Im going shopping phone me later Michelle X " etc.Hes been leaving the house to take calls for a while now also making excuses to go to shop so i phone his mobile when he does - its engaged.
Im not the jealous type but he has told me he wont speak to his ex hates her etc,now talking to her ( 6 times in 3 days!!) but lying for some reason.He's deleting his texts but obviously hasnt deleted all .She did try to split us up years ago trying to get him back etc.
I dont know what to do , there is lots more but i dont want to type forever but he's trying to cover his tracks .
Im in no way against him seeing his child never have been.But why would a woman who wont let him see his child be phoning up his phone constanly and him cover it up.It has been going on months now,Im ready to confront him , i phoned the mobile number said nothing when his ex answered.
Advice anyone
