I was dating my boyfriend for 2 years and 5 months. I am about to be a junior and high school and he just graduated. We knew that we were going to have to break up sometime this summer, but he insisted it be right before he left so we could spend our last summer together. I had a trip planned for 10 days right after school ended and unfortunately he had a trip to go on for 14 days right after i came home. So we would not be seeing each other for 24 days.
I told him that it might be a good idea if we broke up before I left because we woul dhave 24 days to cope and not talk or see each other. HE freaked out and begged me to stay with him and said that we could get through it. I was hesitant but then began to believe him and got extreemly excited about seeing him when i got back.
Right before I left he had gotten a new job. He met this girl who worked with him and it turned out she fancied him. He told me about this but because i had once cheated on him I had no right to say anything I wanted to about this situation. I had cheated on him about 6 months earlier and told him the very next day. Lucky for me he accepted my apology and we still dated.
So i left for my vacation a little worried about what might happen between them but I just told myself. If anything happens it will be something petty and we'll get through it. Boy was I wrong.
It turns out, everyday i was gone he was hanging out with this girl and his other co-workers. He made out with her 3 times and told his best friend that he felt like he wanted to date her not just mess around with her. Keep in mind i had no idea this was going on.
So i get home and hear the hung out everday i was gone, but still wasnt very worried. I got so excited after the 14 days was up and he came over as soon as he got home. The second he walked in the door i could sense the distance. It took about 30 minutes then he decided to tell me that he "couldnt handle a relationship right now". I begged and cried but nothing helped. He also kept saying "its not about marissa (the girl he works with) but i couldnt believe him.
Lucky for me marissa began dating someone when he left for his trip but he still doesnt seem to want to date me. I saw him at a party last night ( 2 days after the breakup) and we messed around. I know we shouldnt have but i felt like that might make him want to date again. He took me home that morning and he basically had to throw me outof his car cause i refused to get out. We talked a little and ended on an okay note, but i still dont know the real reason were broken up.
We only have a month left to date so i know it seems stupid to want to get back together. But i would love to have a mutual breakup and spend every last second with him i can.
Will he come back in time? Will he come back at all? HE NEVER EVER expressed ever in 2 years wanting to break up. this is suhc a shock. what do i do?
