I really dont think I come off as being "unapproachable". Yes, I am a little on the shy side but I dont think it has THAT much of an effect on guys....
jurupa: I dress EXTREMELY well. I am a very fashionable person (people always compliment me on how great my outfits look)....I have very nice clothes (mostly from high end boutiques and nice department stores like saks, neimans, etc...) Trust me, I know how to dress.
I may need to explain myself some more - Im in high school, and I dont smoke/drink....but most of the people in my school do. I think this may have something to do with it....guys dont want to date girls that arent "cool" (in other words, they want girls that party and get wasted every weekend).
I think the previous paragraph kinda makes me sound like a loser, but im not! I mean I cant like PROVE to you that im not a loser, but whatever....