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I will. The problem is that I don't see her that often. I would see her and talk to her before/during the wedding, or possibly after just so that we can enjoy it with no stress. I could call her, but I think that these things have to be discussed in person, so the wedding could be a beginning to a deeper converstaion. Thank you annie24 for the clear tip!

sorry if you're looking for a women only reply. This is coming from a guy, and all i can tell you is that there is no point in loosing your virginity to a random person for those reasons I think. In life, you'll see that things and people change and that your ideas about sex, virginity etc change slower at various times. Maybe to answer your question, think about what you would gain from doing that, and what you would give up. Which is more special to you? Hang in there. And one more thing, as a guy, I value your ideals about virginity.

I do want to get back together, but she didn't break up with me. I sensed that she did want that and at the time, I wanted the same thing. We came up with the decision together, no fighting, arguing, just separated. So we both broke up in a way, but not on bad terms, and I fell like we could go back.

Thak you for the advice and the welcome. i agree with you, i think that i am just thinking about this in such a way for this reason: I have believed that when you invite someone to a wedding, there is some meaning beind that and I am not sure why, but I thought that maybe my ex can interpret that in such a way. Also, does the situation change if I want to get back with her? Should I still invite her, or should i find another date to make things slower, to not be too pushy and scare her?

Hey guys, it's my first post here. this seems like a helpful place, so i hope that i can get some feedback. i am going to a wedding in 2 weeks. it's a family wedding, where all the fam will meet up. i am allowed to bring a guest along. would it be ok for me to invite my ex girlfriend (were together for 2 years) to come? we are on good terms, just back to talking and being friends. please let me know what you think, will this be ok? what do you think she might think if i do this?