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  1. Okay as far as it goes, i know that my personality TOTALLY SUCKS. I went through alot of my life as someone who was really shy and it's something that i feel has left me with quite a DRY character. For example this is how i view myself in the point of others: "I would hate to be locked up in a room with her because she's soo BORING ?!!" My first concern is how on earth do you incorperate clever humour into conversations. To me, the people i admire the most are the funny ones, i instantly adore them because of their personality, and envy anyone who has the ability to naturally come out with amusing things ! It makes me feel soo worthless and lame, that all i can do is stand there and laugh and keep my mouth shut because anything i could have to say would suck and not be anything in comparisson to what others say. I really hate it. & being surrounded by just these comical and hillarious people, if i could wish anything, it would be to have that confidence to be in the same lime light. I guess im not confident, sometimes i feel as if anything that comes out of my mouth is just useless and dumb and that my vocabulary is awful, and i should go read the dictionary or something. I find it really difficult because sometimes i feel as if humour tumbles around patronising intelligance, and people just aren't interested in anyone who's dumb and doesnt have anythng good to say or knows accuratly well what their talking about. This has resulted more in me whining and complaining than asking for advice, but i couldnt name a good quality about myself on any one of my fingers. My opinions are short and something you couln't discuss further into, i'm just lame with a capital L. How can i assure myself of confidence in what i talk about generally?!
  2. well it was taken the suggested time after, which was like 19 days after we slept together. we had sex the day after i finished my period in febuary, and i had my next months period in march, but took my test the day after it finished just due to paranoia. so i actually already had my period but still took it incase. i had my period in april and just finished one now. should i worry about anything? i kind of am now due to everyones rdifferent responses, if i was wouldn't it be too late to do anything? what woukd other symptoms be? there hasnt been any sickness or anything just the appearance of my stomach.
  3. okay, so is it thereforeeee possible for me to be pregnant ? i keep staring at my stomach in the mirror now because the girl who mentiond i look fat has got me worried. i took a test months ago which was after me and my bf had slept together which came out negative. we havnt slept together since it's only when i have meals that my tummy goes big, before i eat its just normal, people have said it could be a wheat intolerance thing which apparently expands your stomach, but yeah i just want to make sure it's nothing else serious.
  4. This may sound like a pretty lame question but i was wondering - Is it at all possible to have your period and be pregnant? A girl at school was talking and mentioned that you can, & that she knew a girl who had periods thoughout 9 months of her pregnancy, but then my friend told me that it's impossible because one of the first signs of pregnancy is a missed period. I'm a bit confused, although i guess it seems some what simple. A few months ago i slept with my boyfriend for the first time, we were protected during intercourse but i was a bit worried because we wernt during foreplay. I took a test just in case, which came out NEGATIVE & i've had all my expected periods since it happened. I'd even had my period before i took the test. The subject arose on one girl saying i looked fat, and like i had a pregnant stomach which actually got me down. My stomach's not flat, and i guess compared to some girls i've got a small pot belly. It's gotten a bit big i guess, my hips have grown but she's made me wonder if the things i've noticed about my body have just occurred since the time i had sex, but coming to think about it i'm not the fittest person on the planet and i don't excersise, my body is still growing, but surely the explination to an unflat tummy isn't that a child's growing inside me. After all as i mentioned since i last had protected sex i've had all my periods and even taken a pregnancy test which came out Negative Maybe she's wound me up but can you ?????
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