belon89

Hey thanks for the advice. I think that some of it pertains to me. I've just sort of been thinking of my whole situation,and I realize now that she could have been on the rebound. After all, she broke up with her boyfriend of a year just a month before we met. So, I don't think that I necesarily messed things up, it was just never meant to be in the first place. But I do agree that I can take some of your advice and apply it to me. So, thank you!

Hi, well I'm 16, and many of you would tell me not to worry about it, but I've never had a gf, and it makes me feel horrible that all of my friends seem to be able to find a gf at least 5 times of year. Anyways, I've heard that a few girls have been attracted me from my friends, so I'm pretty sure I'm not a complete loser. In fact, one girl that I really liked really liked me. Things were going great. In class, we would lock eyes and just stare at each other for seconds, we'd hang out and go on dates, have fun and joke around. All of my friends expected us to become bf/gf. I thought that for once in my life I would finally find love. But it all came to a crashing end. She pretty much just stopped talking to me, and wouldn't tell me why. I asked her friend and the friend said that she had found somebody else and that she thought I was too "quiet" for her and that she wanted someone who she could be crazy around. This made me feel like crap afterwards, and here I am now. So, what exactly am I doing wrong? Should I keep on being "who I am", and found someone who loves me for who I am, or should I change into a more outgoing, crazy,and cocky guy? Because it seems like 90% of guys who get all the dates match this criteria. I would appreciate any help, thanks!