quietgrl

I know women are horny before,during and after our period but sex during your period,It sound too messy

RegallyBlonde,

I understand how you feel about finding reliable friends and boyfriend but most people in today social are very unreliable. How can a person find friends and a boyfriend.I guess by being yourself and getting out there meeting people.

wow Night Pumpkin!!

okay.. forgive me for being noisy but how do you have sex with someone if you aren't talking to them yet?

Do you hold up signs saying, please take off your clothes for me? LOL

forgive me.. but that sounds funny, would you mind explaining?

 

And in concurrence with your other posts, it's good too you don't preclude having a relationship wiht someone you're having casual sex with, I guess.

I love your funny post(Rolling on the floor laughing)

I will be 19 in May, and I'm still a virgin. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 and a half years now, and we have not had sex yet. (Although I forsee it happening soon... )

 

When I think about losing my virginity to the guy I'm with, the thought of it makes me want to cry, because it makes me happy to think that I would be losing my virginity to this wonderful person who means the world to me.

 

It seems to me as if this was a postive experience for you, unlike what I've heard from my friends about their first time.

What would you do if your boyfriends said he would only have sex with you if you two got married.?Would you get married to have sex or leave him.?

Thanks for posting that! I am not head-over-heels for this guy, I am really liking where it's going, how we talk well together etc. It's actually been about 3 dates and no kiss! Very slow...but that's actually what I need right now. We have great conversations and talk occsionally online, but it's always awkward and I would much rather talk in person. I can see that he's interested in me and I am trying to keep myself in check!

Willow,

Why are you censoring yourself from a man?Let this guy know you want to talk to him in person instead of online. Another thing, if you want to kiss the man then tell him you want to kiss him.You need to be yourself and stop worrying if you do something first, this man going to run off.What happens while you're waiting for him to kiss you and talk to him face to face first,another woman goes ahead and does it for you. Be yourself and if a man doesn't like it move on

Square,

I would check out a 40+ virgin male but this guy better give me a commitment down the road.My bag I forgot, i almost did have a relationship with a 40+ virgin male.

1. I would be yourself while dating so the right men can come into your life.

2. Are you a woman who wants a man to do all of the chasing while dating then you need too find men who doesn't want a woman to chase him(rules man) or are you a woman who's not afriad too chase a man while dating then find men who don't care if a woman chase him(real rules man)

3. don't play dating games

4. cuss,fuss, and move on when a man not interested in dating you.

5. LISTEN,LISTEN ,LISTEN when a man talks about women,sex and relationship.A women needs to invest in verbal intimacy before sexual intimacy.

why is that? i would never go on a date with anybody from a site.

I want proof that men get dates on that AFF site.

Batya ,

It's ok, we're havng an honest debate about dating " should a man chase a woman or should a woman chase a man " .We're both right and WE know it but sometimes people's mind take things too personal and people can't stick to honest opinon so they go to personal name calliing instead of staying on topic..It happens to the best of us in a debate batya, we know both side of the chase debate is right but pride gets in the way of giving credit to the other person(me).I understand that you can't separate business and pleasure but as long as both side of the chase debate is heard.The information is out there.Which is a good thing? The bottom line is we have to be honest in a issue and don't let our personal feeling cloud a debate. We can't mix business with pleasure when we talk to people who have opposite opinion then our own..I didn't on this topic with you.

Quietgrl, if a man were interested in a woman, why would she have to chase him in the first place? Shouldn't the calls come evenly from both parties?

I can say the same for a women letting a man chase her.Carbon, me and batsy are both right about women and men chasign eachother. Any person who say we're not don't know nothing about dating.

Suesser Tod,

My opinion verbal intimacy is more powerful then sex and anybody who thinks sex is more powerful then verbal probably going to have relationship issue. A relationship can't be base on sex.

Suesser Tod,the men that are in my life are either virgins,asexual,incel or vocel so the sex issue isn't an issue.The problem i have with men right now is most men over 30 don't want a commitment because of female baggage.i'm trying to "date" Suesser Tod but i'm not going to have casual sex to get a man.I want sex with a commitment(lt boyfriend or husband).I'm not compromising.

I want to meet a man who has dated more then 4 women off of that AFF site.

Batya,

Come on girl ,we have to be honest with our fellow women again.You're telling women to play dating games instead of being themselves .Women who have feeling for a man should sit back and let a man lead.Games playing!!!!!!.Anytime a woman isn't honest with her feeling with a man(crush,friend, etc) after getting to know him is game playing.

We all know there are 2 types of men in this world, ones who want to be chase by women and men who don't want to be chase by a woman period.Women need to be themselves when it comes to dating men and stop playing this " let the man chase me " game( the rules). A man who wants you, will NEVER care if you chase him .It's only men who do care about the chase who will turn a woman down.

Women need to realize it's not all about the chase because if a man doesn't want you, he doesn't want you so move on.

Baysa, we're both right on this dating issue but you're representing "don't chase" men side and i'm representing women who chase men. I can mention love stories where the women chase a man and they're happily married and i'm sure you can do the same.We're both right and women should know that.

may I ask what your reason is to keep your virginity?

I mean.. for the other person I needn't. Maybe religious in your case?

But sex could also be power, if I would give in I guess I would get done so much more (other things) than if I'm not

 

I'm a non religious virgin because i want sex with a commitment( via long term boyfriend or husband.I don't believe in casual sex.How is sex is power ?Hey if sex was power i wouldn't be a virgin right now and i would have my 2 male friends kissing my feet.

teardrops,

The key to dating is make a list of what you want and need in a relationship and stick by it. A man who wants the same thing as you on your list will stay and a man who doesn't want what you want on your list will make you play games to keep him.

Another thing don't believe this crap that all man needs to chase your butt or he'll lose interest in you because if a man wants a woman it doesn't matter who does the chasing.

The best advice for women who are dating is listen to men when they tell you about their past dating and relationship history.I wouldn't delay havng sex with men until you know a man past.

teardrops, you have every right to feel bitter about dating because you and men let yourself down.Ok! yell ,scream,cuss,take a break from dating and then regroup but much stronger.

Square,

How many women have you met offline from AFF?I never hear men meet alot of women off of that site maybe 1-2 women max

Lucky dog!!!I would love to dominate a man.Sissy boy get on your knee and kiss mistress QG's feet

Hey, i'm a virgin female in my 30's and i never ever let nobody put my virginity in doubt .Belgian girl if you want your first time to be with a man you love then wait.I wouldn't let anybody sex story change your mind.

Square,

"Having been a shy introvert all my life, I can't say for sure that I'm relationship material."

Oh no your an introvert man too.I'm a seriuos expert on youy guys.( introvert men) relationship material?????????

Yes!!!!!!I can relate

CG,

I'm going to frame your post because i love it but i don't like it when you talk about suicide.

TD,

why are you 100% complaining about dating? I wish i has some(i mean some) of your dating issue.I never had one date in my life

Lily04,

I see we're in the same boat,I have an essay due this wednesday and i'm having a seriuos writer block . How about letting your teachers and partner know you're stress out with school work and just shut the world out for a few minutes or hours to regroup your mind.I'm going to regroup my mind Monday morning and try to write my essay.

I would like to say that being celibate isn't that bad. I'm a virgin still and think that, hey, life is life (remember the song by Opus?).

 

I'm content being a virgin and having some female friends that go out with me now and then, and have no complaints. My dad talked me out of adultfriendfinder. You really want to hook up with a person who may have lots of diseases who is sleeping with everyone? Think about it. Or do you want a respectable decent girl? You are selling yourself short, it's a bad idea, go after quality women - you may as well go for the gold one time, since you aren't having any luck with the bronze.

Very good point bro