In a nut shell, I am still in love with my ex-wife and am determined to find a wat to get her back. We have been divorced for just over a year and a half and have remained in contact. In fact, during that time, we have been close to reconciling twice, most recently about 2 months ago. Every time things seem to be going our way and she admits to me that I am probably the best thing for her and that she loves me, something happens. The problem is that I never know about it until after she has made a decision. This communication problem has always been there and she admits that the problem is hers. I know she is confused about things and maybe always will be but I love her so much that I want to be there to help her figure things out. There is nothing I wouldn't do for her and I know she knows that. I've made lots of changes in my life which have all been things I needed to but also things that were factors leading to our divorce. She currently just started dating again. This is the second person she has dated since our divorce and both guys have been younger than her and not yet established in whatever they are going to do with their lives. I see this as a way for her to control her situation which she said was always an issue between us (me being the one doing the controlling). She was right about that and that is a big thing I have worked on through counseling. We get so close and I can see how much she still loves me. It is frusterating but I'm very determined. She is worht everything to me. I would gladly take any advice that might give me some insight.
