kingdomheartsx3

the thing is we haven't really talked since i found out he said he wouldnt go out with older girls.. isn't it a bit weird if i just ask him out now? and also, im way too shy to ask a guy out. and another thing, prom is coming up, i know i don't have a chance of going with him anymore, and my frds say i should go with this other guy. is it wrong to pursue the junior and say yes to this other guy to prom?

haha i am a pretty shy girl and yea most of the time i dont like to initiate conversations with the guy i like, because it means so much more when he starts it. also, i like it better when he says hi or waves first. i think she probably likes you but is trying to play it cool cuz thats what i do. i think you should ask her to hang out with you a couple of times and get her to be less shy around you before you ask her out.

i really need help. Im currently a senior in hs, and about a few months ago I started liking a jr. I've never been into younger guys before, but he really caught my eye the first time I saw him, and I just couldn't resist. The thing is I'm really shy and it would help if we shared some of the same friends, but that's not really the case. Well anyway, my friend just went up to him one day and got his screen name for me. we started talking online and he seems really nice. Then I realized that hes also really shy, possibly even more shy than me. I don't really see him in school, but I've tried to look for him. A few times when he saw me in the hallway, he would wait for me to catch up to him and we would walk together. Being as shy as I am, I thought that was progress for me. my frds say that I should ask him to hang out with us, but im too shy to ask, because I really hate making it so obvious that I like him. Anyway, one of my frds is frds with one of his frds and he found out that the guy I like said recently that hes not into older girls. I was really shocked and pissed. So I stopped talking to him. And I guess he figured that I stopped liking him and stopped talking to me too. However, I was never really able to get over him. A month after I 'stopped' liking him, I started talking to this other guy, who is also really shy but sooo sweet. And I started developing feelings for this guy, but sometimes I just cant take my mind off the other guy. I keep comparing them, and to be honest, this new guy doesn't stand a chance against him appearance-wise. However, I know that this new guy is so much nicer to me than the last guy and I really do like him sometimes. A few months later, he finally got enough courage to ask me out and in a really sweet way, too; but I said no. I guess its cuz im still not over the other guy. my frds tell me how foolish I was to pass up on a sweet guy and hope for a guy that's just not gonna change. Me and the younger guy barely talk now and im sure that he thinks I don't like him anymore. But the truth is im still crazy about him. What should I do? sometimes I feel like if maybe I had told him I liked him, maybe he might have given me a chance. I mean he couldn't say he had absolutely no feelings for me right? What should I do? im graduating soon and I might never see him again. My frds say that I'll meet much better guys than him in college, but I really feel like I wont get over him. Please give me some advice.