gmiller2113

hello? anyone? please?

But the thing is if I ask her out straight that would mean showing all my cards whereas if I ask if she has a BF first, then she could probably interpret it as curiosity and save myself from being verbally rejected. What do you think?

I think the fact that you told him you were willing to go out with him is enough. Just wait it out for awhile but dont get your hopes up. He basically has the upper hand right now and it's all up to him if he wants something out of this. Just my thought. PS I have made a post titled "which way is better and why" on "attraction and flirting"I hope you can take some time to give me some feedback as I have yours..ty

But after all those time she was leading me on don't you think I deserve at least a right to be prank about it?

If she does tell me she has a BF should I tell her something like "Oh, I would have never thought you had a BF. Sometimes you act like you don't." The reason why I would want to say such a thing is that I want to let her realize that I KNOW that she was leading me on and I don't appreciate that. Should I tell her this if she has a BF or would I come accross as a sore loser???

So I met this girl and some heavy flirting went on (teasing, touching, lots of eye contact, etc.). Now I want to ask her out but an acquaintance of mine (not someone I hang out with often) mentioned she has a BF (she never told me about any BF nor was there any mention). One thing I noted was that I gave her my email so she can send me some of the poems she wrote (we're both into poems) about a month ago but she never emailed me but the flirting still went on nevertheless. I never reminded her about it since we're both busy with school. I'm not heavily pursuing her and have been avoiding being on her friendzone (I never tolerated any disrespect from her if any at all). She's usually the one who approaches me first but I also do it at times. So my qustion is should I ask just ask her out straight or should I directly ask if she has a BF first?