As far as being with a guy for an extended amt of time and not yet kissing, I dont find it weird at all. I was with a guy for like over a year and we never kissed, although during this time we were also best friends, but the first time we did kiss, I kissed him and once we did kiss, our relationship became more and more physical, but anyway, I asked him why he never had kissed me before and he told me he had wanted to for a long long time but he was just scared and he had never kissed a girl before, so my advice is to take it slow, hug him , then kiss his cheek, and get closer and closer to his mouth, ya know "work your way in" and then kiss him full on the mouth, I would suggest no tongue the first time though, Work into that too. I hope this helps.
