thankyou for your responses
i know in my own mind i am being abused mentaly but i just dont have the strenghth to go so many things hold me
firstly i have been with this man for 18 years i have a very unstable background myself i have gone thorugh so much before he came along and i am scared of being alone and coping
i know also there are many help and support groups but i am unsure how to
aproach them
even with the support of my cpn i am still frightend not of the physical
i have had that before but just of trying to start again
i have very little confidence in my self or belife
but thankyou for answering