melrich: I am not 23, some how I messed up my age lol I know that sounds stupid but idunno how it got like that. I am younger than 20 btw. And I'm sure there are things missing in the post, I guess I'm just not sure what to say. We will be talking soon but can't right now and maybe that is just the answer: "I am not surprised that you are finding it hard to let go as it seems you have had no closure of any type at all." what you said. I also am wondering why he keeps mentioning talking to me if he is in an other relationship? Does this mean anything?