jadedgirl

Hey, I know you have to be in a lot of pain. But believe me, dating new people isn't going to solve anything. What you need to do is just be with yourself. Be with family and friends, the people who have always been there for you and always loved you. They'll be your crutch through this and help you make it through. Dating other people is just going to end up in more heartache. I've been there too. Of course I wasn't engaged, but it was serious. Dating other people, like you said, you're just going to keep on comparing them to "her". And you don't want to do that. Those people don't deserve that and neither do you. It might take a year, it might take two years to get over her. But eventually you will and you'll be so much stronger. Rely on God also. Remember, he never leaves you. Spend time trying to find out who you are and where you are in this world. Until you know that and until you make yourself happy instead of other people, you'll never be happy. That's something I've always been told, it's just hard to follow. I hope you're doing better than when you posted your message. If you can, can you help me out with my dilema. I posted mine under "jadedgirl". It's bad also.