So i met this really amazing guy in the summer, and we hooked up, and we both like each other a lot. But then he had to go home. And the problem is that he lives 19 hours away from me. When he left, we still talked everyday. We knew that we were going to see each other at Christmastime, and we even promised that we wouldn't see other people since we knew that we would be together again. We talked ALL the time, like 5 hour conversations, and we'd talk until 5 in the morning some nights. He told me that he couldn't wait until christmas to see me, and that he was going to come and visit me before then, but then something got messed up with his passport and he couldn't come. But it was ok, because I had already waited 2 months, what was another 2 right? But now i just found out that i won't be able to go down there at Christmas either, and i'm wondering if it's even worth trying to keep this "relationship" going. Like i said, we both are really into each other, and me especially, i know that it hurts so bad everytime that i find out it's going to be even longer until i see him. I'm considering just telling him that i can't talk to him anymore because it hurts too bad. i can't keep going on, not knowing when i'm going to see him next...it's too hard on me when i feel so strongly for him. I know there's always that quote "if you love something let it go, if it comes back its your's, if it doesn't i was never meant to be" and i guess i'm just going to have to trust that, and that maybe i will see him somewhere down the road...i just don't know if i would be doing the right thing telling him that i don't want to even talk to him at all. Any suggestions?
