busted85

Thats a good one jerky, if your really that interested, we are on a break because our month long relationship got too intense and i agree somewhat. Unfortunately for you a) she IS still heavily attracted to me and b) your ex isnt attracted to you. Oh and not rubbing it in but you've acted a bit of a dic"k so c) theres no chance your getting back with your ex, whereas when i saw my chick yesterday, she missed me and said some good things. Its looking good. Im sorry for you, but stop acting like a vindictve swine.

Another thing, i would really like to know from a girls point of view what she thinks my girlfriend is feeling right now. i can understand where she is coming from when she says this is all a bit mad, but ive heard that having a break is code for splitting up (allthough i believe she genuinlly wants a break to think about us) and anything else that she may be thinking. Im guessin that u girls may be able to give me some insight to this and put my mind at ease a little hopefully. Thanks

Thanks for all your replies, appreciate ya. I know this situation does sound weird, having a break after a month and all that, but like i said earlier this relationship is pretty intense. In a strange way i have kind of learnt to embrace the fact that im so close to someone this soon, (instead of getting all scared about it like i was a little to start). Its never happened before and i do have a good feeling about her. Anyway, just a little update, had to go over to hers today to pick up some stuff that i really needed, couldnt really avoid it. We ended up having a little chat and i think it went pretty well. She seems still well into me and i think she said once again that she needs a little time ( a few days i think, not sure) "and then i'll realise im just being stupid", which was quite encouraging. It really could of gone a lot worse actually, there was a bit of hugging and i could tell that she was missing me. She had actually spent most of the night last night talking to someone about me so at least i know that she still cares. She did say she would phone me tonight, no call so far but its cool. Really have to keep my distance till thursday (her birthday) anyway, even then i doubt i will be about much on that day,maybe just take her for a drink or something. All in all, im feeling much better today about this. I think this may not end and i also believe that she took notice when i said i would rather re-evalute what went wrong and then fix it rather than just to give up on this. And again thanks for your replies, its helped a great deal actually.

Hey, my girlfriend has told me that she wants to go on a break for a week or so. Im pretty cut up about this as im really into her. Its not normal for me to do this, but we've only been together for a month and allready things are pretty intense. After 6 days 'i love you' was muttered and surprisingly, i felt exactly the same. Shes actually the female version of me, with all the little quirks, i love her to bits. But she really flipped out last night, this was triggered by her seeing someone in a club who she had a thing for before she knew me. She said she was real tempted, and if she was thinking these thoughts then she doesnt know what she wants. We talked about it and we decided to go on a break. My questions to you here are can anything be read into the fact she wants a break for a week? is it quite possible that if she still does have these feelings for me, after a few days apart she will be fine? Her feelings for me are quite intense after all. Or is her wanting a break just a way of her trying to mask the fact to herself that she wants it to end? And also, how is the best way to handle this break? What should i do? Keep my distance? Fone her? Its her birthday on Thursday, what do i do? Thanks, busted 20